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While discussing fear and the affected continuum , we realised that love does not exist independently. Love is bound within other continuum just like a fruit salad.In a fruit salad you may have things you don’t like , fruits that you like but not as much as others and fruits that you absolutely adore.If you mix the fruits that you love the most with others that you don’t love so much then the collective taste of the salad is not as good as an individual fruit.

The understanding of what you like and what you don’t in terms of your continuum is not acknowledged by most of us.Even though some of us do know the “don’t like so much” continuum we fail to acknowledge them and so we taste it every time as if we have never tasted them before and suffer. The first step is to bleed out these states. They may be really painful at the start but the only reason you will enjoy the later stage is because your fruit salad has now become even more concentrated with fruits you actually like.This in turn will give you a good probability of a sweeter taste every time you take a bite.

On to the real paradigm these basically reflects that if you bleed out fear and other not so good states from your mind your mind actually becomes ready to taste the love and you will feel better than you ever have in life.

A lot of authors actually ask you to acknowledge your mind as a different entity and watch your own thoughts in order to stop the thinking process.That may be good but basically promotes the feeling of rushing to the point of extreme “happiness” without enjoying the journey. It basically means that you run away from thought that occur in your mind without fighting them and defeating them.You suppress the individualism of the thoughts and they will always revolt later in life.The problem with watching them is that every time you lapse you have to begin to watch them again.However the good thing about acknowledging your thoughts and to modestly defeat them in their own ugliness helps you stop them and eradicate them from their own roots.

Let me take an example. You see a beautiful woman and you harvest some thoughts about sleeping with her.While the society judges these thoughts to be good or bad you in your own expedition to the “love continuum” begin watching them and eventually suppress these thoughts. Every time you see a beautiful woman your suppressed thoughts will revolt.The demon of these suppressed thoughts continues to grow bigger and bigger and there comes a time when it goes beyond your control.

A better way to tackle this is when you see a beautiful woman acknowledge that she is beautiful , tell her she is and tell her what your mind thinks about her.While this may not be practical in all circumstances it is a very essential exercise for the mind.Once you have let the thought out it no more remains bound to your continuum and becomes independent of your continuum.Your inner self would have nothing to hide from your external self and you will begin to reach a stage to continue your journey to that “oneness”.You will be modest and every time you see another beautiful woman you will feel happy about acknowledging your thoughts and they will eventually die.

Life span of a thought is very small but it is our obsession with them that grants them immortality.